5 Phrases You Should Never Say to Your Child

This phrase invalidates the child's feelings and teaches that expressing emotions is wrong. Say instead: "I'm here, it's okay to cry. What happened?

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Negative labels destroy self-esteem. Your child believes what you say. Prefer: "Let's try another way? I'll help you!

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Comparisons create rivalry and insecurity. Every child is unique! Say instead: "You have your own special talents.

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Threats of abandonment cause trauma and deep anxiety. Use: "I'm frustrated right now, but I will always be here for you.

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Repressing emotions because of gender creates emotionally blocked adults. Say instead: "Crying is normal; it’s part of being human.

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A parent's words shape the person your child will become. Educate with empathy and build a bond of trust. Discover your child's name meaning!

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5 Phrases You Should Never Say to Your Child

This phrase invalidates the child's feelings and teaches that expressing emotions is wrong. Say instead: "I'm here, it's okay to cry. What happened?

5- Stop crying!

Negative labels destroy self-esteem. Your child believes what you say. Prefer: "Let's try another way? I'll help you!

4- You are so stupid!

Comparisons create rivalry and insecurity. Every child is unique! Say instead: "You have your own special talents.

3-Look how much better your sibling is

Threats of abandonment cause trauma and deep anxiety. Use: "I'm frustrated right now, but I will always be here for you.

2- I'm leaving you here!

Repressing emotions because of gender creates emotionally blocked adults. Say instead: "Crying is normal; it’s part of being human.

1-Big boys don't cry

A parent's words shape the person your child will become. Educate with empathy and build a bond of trust. Discover your child's name meaning!

The Power of Words.

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